Code Three-One

The ORIAKU Mentality 2

Story Story? Story! Once upon a time? Time, Time! I have a confession to make. As a single woman, I had this fantasy that the man I would marry would come into my life, like the ‘Prince Charming’ that he was, sweep me off my feet, and into the latest model of Honda Element, (a… Continue reading The ORIAKU Mentality 2

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Code Three-One

The ORIAKU Mentality

  A few years before I got married, I had attended the traditional wedding ceremony of a close family friend, as a member of her bridal asoebi. As is commonly practiced, if the bride’s hometown (which is the venue of the said ceremony) is quite far from where most of her bridal asoebi reside, they… Continue reading The ORIAKU Mentality

The FLAWED Wife

The BEDROCK CONVOS 3 : Talk Is Not Cheap In Relationships 3

Based on my experience so far in my relationship (yes I'm in a relationship, lol), I’ll share the various forms of communication you can have with your partner. They are in two categories- POSITIVE and NEGATIVE The positive forms of communication include OPEN COMMUNICATION: This form of communication is what I refer to as the… Continue reading The BEDROCK CONVOS 3 : Talk Is Not Cheap In Relationships 3

The FLAWED Wife

The BEDROCK CONVOS 2 : Talk Is Not Cheap In Relationships 2

In my last post, I talked about how important communication was as a significant survival tip for any good and lasting relationship. If not for how constant my husband and I  would communicate, I doubt our relationship would have survived the test of time and distance (and I’m not just saying it because of the Long-Distance Marriage.) Even… Continue reading The BEDROCK CONVOS 2 : Talk Is Not Cheap In Relationships 2

The FLAWED Wife

THE BEDROCK CONVOS 1 : Talk Is Not Cheap In Relationships

Ladies, if there is one thing you will do for me it’s this- Get you a man that you can talk with. Yes, get a man who you can have a conversation with. Let me be real with you for a minute. Like I told you all before, I’m in a LDM (Long Distance Marriage).… Continue reading THE BEDROCK CONVOS 1 : Talk Is Not Cheap In Relationships